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Last year, due to the parental heart of our Grand Church head minister, I was given an opportunity to serve as homeroom instructor for the 1000th class of the Spiritual Development Course, Shuyoka.
I would like to share with you what I told the students in my Shuyoka class when I taught the Doctrine of Tenrikyo Chapter Ten, “Joyous Life.”
It was about “helping one another and the truth of unity of mind.”
How can we implement the teachings we learn in the Doctrine in our daily lives? How can we walk toward the “Joyous Life?” I would be grateful if you could think about the gap between ideal and reality, and how we can go about addressing it.
What, then, is the “Joyous Life?”
The Joyous Life is a way in which we, ourselves, live each day with a “bright and cheerful mind.” It is to live amidst joy and pleasure.
The important thing about the Joyous Life is that it appears when we rejoice with others, when we share our joy with others. A solitary Joyous Life doesn’t exist. It is indeed as Oyasama said, “through saving others, you will be saved.”
However, even when they have been a fervent follower of the Path, one who dedicates him/herself to the path, there are those whose relationship with their spouses or family members are not going well, or they may be having relationship problems at church, work and the community.
So then, how do we share joy with others or enjoy things with others? It is to keep in mind that we are all brothers and sisters. We are all uniting our hearts on the same path, supporting each other, and helping each other. As we accumulate these kinds of days one after another, the path toward the Joyous Life will start to open up.
However, there is something that may hinder us on this path. And that is “selfishness.” Selfishness is not adjusting yourself to the teachings of God the Parent. It is adjusting the teachings of God the Parent to fit your own convenience. This shows up in your habits and natural disposition.
You may think that selfishness may be convenient for each individual, but if everyone got their way, the whole would not be settled. So, you may try to politely advise the teachings to a selfish person, and in doing so, if the person follows and receives the workings of the teachings of Oyasama, this becomes salvation.
However, this truly is a difficult undertaking. Human beings are indeed selfish. We see things how we want to see them. We teach things how we want to be taught. We want to do things the way we want to. And because of this selfishness, it is hard for people to understand this. There are lot of people like this in this world who follow a dark path of the heart.
So what do we do when we encounter someone who is selfish like this?
Firstly, do not get caught up in the dust. It is important to proceed with a humble heart.
The first head minister of Sekiho Branch Church once said: “Be willing to be thought a fool. Be willing to be thought an idiot. And when it comes to arguments, be the one who loses.”
It is because we try to win that we end up covered in dust. When we lower ourselves in humility, conflicts become smaller. Even so, dust will still settle upon us. That is why it is important to immediately use the teachings of God the Parent as a broom to sweep away the dust from our own hearts.
Rather than trying to force the other person to change, try changing your own minds instead. Change your own perspective. Change your position. Change the distance between yourself and the other person. Finding the right balance is also important.
When you change yourself, there are times when the other person’s mind also begins to change. However, there are also people who simply do not change at all—people who almost seem like monsters who understand nothing.
When that happens, your first priority should be protecting your own heart. Above all, do not face that monster who is trying to wound your heart while standing defenseless.
Rescue teams that head out to save lives always ensure their own safety first. After all, if they are not safe, they can’t help others. Isn’t it the same for salvation work?
The first head minister of the Sekiho Branch Church further taught us, as an admonition, to refrain from using “harsh words, abrasive remarks, dismissive comments, whining, nagging, complaints and grievances, divisive speech behind someone’s back, falsehood and flattery.”
Cold, unfriendly words. Words that sever ties. Harsh, hurtful remarks. Complaints and grievances. Backbiting and divisive speech. Divisive speech is a thing like, “That person said they don't like you.” And insincere flattery. Never use words like that. Not even in dreams. Think of it as something that will rot your mouth if you use it.
On the other hand, what should you do if you are on the receiving end of such harsh words? In that case, try thinking of it this way. Consider that person a benefactor who has helped you cancel one of the bad causations ties you carried over from your previous life. Then, praise that person behind their back and express your gratitude.
That doesn’t mean you have to accept the person’s harsh words. Through that experience, you can refine your mind.
I have previously stated that tanno, joyous acceptance, is the total affirmation of the form one’s life takes as it unfolds. By practicing tanno, the value of your existence in the eyes of God the Parent is enhanced.
I consider a “wise person” to be someone who can flexibly adjust their mindset in the course of salvation work, someone who does not fear change but rather finds interest in that very process of transformation. To an outside observer, it might appear that such wise people are being taken advantage of by the world. Yet, when a wise person becomes a Yoboku and serves as an instrument of Oyasama, flexibly applying their heart and mind to the task, God the Parent and Oyasama surely rejoice at that sight.
We may not be able to take giant strides toward the Joyous Life. However, taking even a small but certain step forward I believe, is the reality of our lives today. And is it not precisely within that process of moving forward that the truth of “mutual help” and “unity of mind” is found? What do you think?
The Spiritual Development Course is a vital place for nurturing individuals. I urge you to actively encourage those around you to enroll in the course. As for the role of dorm counselors, let all of us at the Grand Church unite our hearts and minds and fully devote ourselves, so that the baton of sincere devotion is passed on from one person to the next in an unbroken relay.
This, I believe, is a precious duty—nurturing people, nurturing faith, and passing the path on to generations yet to come.
(Edited by Honjima Tsushin Editorial Staff)